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@Pascalle: I think you're right, but its diffe...

2011-01-07T04:11:38.645-05:00

@Pascalle: I think you're right, but its different. Men jab at one another all the time, and its a natural sort of bonding thing. Most women are just not capable of taking an insult and not taking it internally. Even if they laugh it off, they remember and it just contributes to later drama.

Steph, it really irks me when I hear other women s...

2011-01-06T21:32:18.683-05:00

Steph, it really irks me when I hear other women say they hate other women too! To me it's almost a form of self-hate...how could you go aorund saying you hate someone who's make up is basically the same as yours?! I think when we get older it becomes harder to make real connections to other people...and with other women? Ugh, even worse! I wish that we stood as a united front against men because breaking each other down is not cool.

I think that is one thing I hate the most. Drives...

2011-01-06T20:16:49.565-05:00

I think that is one thing I hate the most. Drives me nuts when people say no disrespect or don't take offense.

Peace, Love and Chocolate
Tiffany

Men speak to eachother disrespectfully and demeani...

2011-01-06T15:57:34.420-05:00

Men speak to eachother disrespectfully and demeaning as a way to socialize. Women do the same. This should not justify debasing cross-gender relations. Full stop.

Not to be all captain save'em-ish, but a real ...

2011-01-06T15:16:53.181-05:00

Not to be all captain save'em-ish, but a real (read: older) man simply won't come out of his mouth all kinds of ways to a woman unless a)its in jest with his boys or b)he's angry. How women treat each other shouldn't even enter into the equation..As an aside, I should mention that I just got married, so my answers are disgustingly hopeful and altruistic

Reality is our perception

2011-01-06T14:37:24.648-05:00

Reality is our perception